Fruit Inspection

Yesterday I went to see Women of Faith in Atlanta. That is always such a worthwhile experience.

This year’s highlights included Mandisa, who not only rocked the house with her soulful singing, but had an incredible testimony about her time on American Idol. And another of my favorite gals, Lisa Welchel. I assumed Lisa would be talking about motherhood, since most of her books were written on that very subject, but she surprised me with words of encouragement for those who have been hurt and in response, have built up walls. She told of her own struggle with feeling as though she was living her life as a bystander, afraid to fully love or be loved.

My favorite part of her story came as she described how she chose to open up to a friend. To make herself vulnerable, in an effort to tear down those pesky walls. That friend loved her unconditionally. Reminded her of God’s word. And held her accountable on days she was weak.

As the other ladies came up, whether it was Luci Swindoll, Marilyn Meberg, or Sheila Walsh, they all had different stories with a common theme. Not one of them spoke without mentioning their friends. Friends who took them to doctors, gave financial advise, hugged them as they cried, or planned weekends together to just talk, eat, and pray together.

I made me reflect on the wonderful friends the Lord has placed in my life. Friends He knew I would need to endure the difficult season my family has been dealing with. I wish I could say that I’ve been as good a friend to them over the past year, but most of the time I’ve been burdened by stress and the unknown.

I would say to you that there is not a better definition of friendship, than what I have experienced. My true friends. That although I have been totally wrapped up in my own little world, they have continued to call me, love me, pray for me, and let me cry on their shoulders, without getting much in return.

So thanks to all of you (and you know who you are). I sense “A Grand New Day” is just around the corner. My load is getting lighter and our future is once again looking bright. I’m forever grateful for your selflessness and the friendship you offered to me. You guys are THE BEST!!!